State switcher
Exercise is the most powerful, easiest, most sustainable and positive state switcher I know of.
It’s amazing at helping break through walls that seem overwhelming.
Meditation is nice - but I feel like it works better after exercise.
Drugs are strong state switchers as well, but cant really compare them, none of them are really sustainable. Drugs as in - from nicotine to caffeine to nootropics, to harder stuff, doesn't really matter, it’s all external, and there's no "free lunch" with these, meaning you often pay hidden prices for them that are not worth it.
Contrast this with exercise, which is essentially making your own emotional cocktail, always available, works well, and the downsides are very obvious - it's "hard" as in can't be lazy, but there's a tonne of positive side-effects to it.
Before movement aka slumps
Today I had the perfect reminders of this.
I was putting off writing this article most of the day, even though I had been thinking about it all week.
I could list 10.000 rational reasons why I shouldn’t do it right now. "Maybe in 5 minutes, let me just do this other thing." Hours passed. Almost all day went by.
The truth was, my state was fucked.
When I get these sensations I make it a habit to think on paper, write down my thoughts, and then ask myself what’s going on, what's the solution, what worked before.
"MOVE YOUR ASS"
I have to often remind myself that when I feel resistance, it's probably because of my shitty state, and the solution for that usually is just to
“move my ass, stop being lazy”. So I grabbed my bag and hit the gym.
After moving
After all my training sessions, usually none of my previous 10.000 "rational" reasons seem relevant anymore, they become almost laughable.
Exercise, especially weights, unlock an incredible amount of vitality and drive for me, and arguably for anyone once they learn to dial it in.
Unfortunately this is something coaches don’t seem to focus much on, which is also a big reason why I’m sharing this, I think this might be one of my "things", but more on this later.
Simple, but not easy
Like most things in life, the idea is quite simple to sketch out and explain but often it’s really not easy to follow.
The short version is:
every time you move you get a positive bump in your mood, but often it’s hard to notice unless you really pay attention to it, and constantly remind yourself.
Hard to remember
I find it incredibly hard to remember this switch.
I mean I know the theory, but when I feel apathetic, anxious, stressed, irritated, all the problems, my negative side comes up and tends to dismiss that the solution might be so simple as moving.
"How could the weight of the world get lighter, by adding more weight?? Sounds reta...stupid! I don't have time for this".
But it works.
Every time.
And although I know this very well rationally, it's often still hard to talk myself into it. So I have a conversation with myself and remind myself that I need to trust the process a bit, and look at all the previous times it worked, in a multitude of situations.
I think this is one of the biggest reasons why people quit movement routines, they think the struggle magically disappears, or that it's supposed to be effortless. It doesn't work like that, it does get easier to manage though, with systems.
I’ve been playing with this idea for years now, at some point I even started making an app for it called goodbumps, but I became comfortable with my routine, I thought I had it locked in, until of course I stopped paying attention to it, life got more difficult, and I lost the ability to turn the switch on.
When things are good we tend to not think about them. But then inevitably after a while I would drop the habits, and I’d have to re-educate myself, almost starting from scratch.
My instagram account @csonotes is partly a reminder for myself that
1 - I have a switch
2 - it worked countless times.
I really recommend recording your own in some way, become your own hype person. All it takes is a few moments of extra attention, and the ROI on it is yuuuge.
Lately I accepted that remembering "the switch" will be a constant uphill battle, but there are ways to make it easier. So I’m starting work on the app again, and also sharing more of all this.
Overall it’s the best way to “get out of my head” that I know of.
And I think that’s the main motivator, all the rest, the health benefits, longevity, aesthetics are byproducts.
Notes:
Hydration:
The times I don’t get a mega boost from working out is usually when I’m dehydrated, but even then once I workout the thirst really kicks in and my body knows how to fix it, but ofc better not to get there.
3L of water a day, about one cup every hour in your first waking hours according to #science, check out Andrew Huberman on water.
Also electrolytes. If you drink too much unmineralized water it can just wash out your electrolytes. About a pinch of salt per liter of water should do, (depends how much you sweat) and squeeze a bit of lemon in it if you want to be all exxxxtra. That's already way better than 90% of "hydration" sports drinks out there. "more on this later"
Lack of sleep:
if you haven't had enough sleep, that's exactly when you need to exercise. Dr Rhonda Patrick has some great videos on the data that supports this, "more about this later" too in upcoming articles.